Knowledge for the Dirty Minded

What is the Encyclopervia?
A collection of swinging, dogging and sexual terms as well as a variety of slang terms used in our community.

How was/will the Encyclopervia be created?
The list has been researched and written by 'Serendipity' from information collected from various websites as well as submissions from members of swingfans.com and will continue to grow.

Some are widely accepted terms, some will be very unusual and some will be just plain silly.

Why are there names next to some descriptions?
This is the name of the person who submitted the word or phrase and its meaning. Want to suggest something? Contact us!

Important note: This list is meant to be informative but FUN, please remember that we are not suggesting that you should be doing everything on the list, nor are we suggesting that everything on it is legal in the UK! For more information on UK sex laws, visit the Sexual Freedom Coalition or Google for more info.

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Abbreviations- A list of commonly used abbreviations on adult sites, available here on London Fetish Scene

Analingus Oral-sex performed on the anus. See also RIMMING.

Angry Dragon- Immediately after you blow your load in your partners mouth, smack the back of their head and make it come out their nose. When he/she gets up they'll look like an angry dragon (Leprechaun)

Arabian Goggles-A seldom-seen maneuver when a man puts his testicles over his partners eye sockets while getting head

Aussie Kiss- A synonym for a french kiss, but given down under (Leprechaun)

Auto-erotic Asphyxiation- The act of depriving ones own brain of oxygen, usually by means of self-strangulation, before and during orgasm

Autofellatio- Fellatio performed on oneself

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Basting- A slang term that describes the act of a fourth party who, during a spitroast, masturbates and then ejaculates over the woman. This has the effect of 'basting' the piece of meat i.e. the person getting roasted (Leprechaun)

BBW -Big Beautiful Woman

BDSM-Bondage, Domination/Submission, Sadism and Masochism

Bi-curious -Interested in having same gender sexual experiences

Bi-dabbler- Someone who enjoys same gender sexual experiences occasionally when the opportunity presents itself (Serendipity)

Bi-friendly -Straight but not going to have a panic attack over incidental contact with the same sex

Bisexual - Enjoying sexual contact with both sexes.

Bloodsports - BDSM play that involves blood, including cutting and piercing.

Blow Job - Slang term for oral sex performed on a man, also known as a "BJ"

Body Modification -The deliberate alteration of the body in some for aesthetic, sexual or personal reasons. Can including piercing, branding, tightlacing etc

Booty Call - To call a fuck buddy up for casual sex (Leprechaun)

Bondage and Discipline - A sexual encounter or role play involving elements of sadism and masochism in which one partner, who is submissive, is bound or restrained, and then disciplined, chastised, or punished physically or mentally by the dominant partner. Such acts are generally agreed upon or negotiated beforehand

Bottom - see Sub

Breath Play - Restricting airflow, by strangulation, suffocation, or other means for sexual stimulation. Also see Erotic Asphyxiation

Bull - a cuckolding term used for a man having sex with the wife/partner participating in a cuckolding scenario (terence397)

Bukkake - A group of men will empty their load, usually over a single woman but this can also include more than one woman or men.

Butt plug - A sex toy designed for anal penetration that has a flared base. Usually smaller than a typical dildo and not shaped like a penis

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Camming - The use of webcams to view others for chat, voyeurism or exhibitionism

CBT - Cock and ball torture

CD - Crossdresser

CFNM - An acronym for Clothed Female, Naked/Nude Male (cfnmguy)

Cock Ring - A metal, leather or rubber ring used around the base of the penis/balls to increase sensitivity or prolong erection

Consensual Non-consent - Sometimes also known as rape fantasy or ravishment, involving the act of "forced" sex as part of acting out a fantasy with the consent of all involved

CP - Most often used as an abbreviation for Corporal Punishment in the BDSM scene but also used for Cock Play.

Cream Pie - An internal cumshot

Cross dress (cross dresser/CD) - For a man to wear women's clothing. Used especially for men who only occasionally dress as women but maintain their masculine identity otherwise

Cuckolding - The practice of a women having sex with another man/men while her husband/partner is "forced" to watch. Often includes overtones of humiliation so differs from Voyeurism or Dogging Cummylingus - The art of licking a girlie's lovetunnel once a blokie has cum inside her. (DirtyGirl)

Cunnilingus - Performing oral sex on a female (jim_de_mooner)

Cybersex - Having sex over the internet. Usually refers to erotic chatting via the computer while one or both of the parties is masturbating

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Daisy Chain - Group oral sex i.e.a linking of several people (Dominatrix)

Deep Throat - Slang term for a type of oral sex in which a man's partner is able to overcome his or her gag-reflex and allow the penis to go deeply into their mouth, sometimes down their throat.

Dental Dam - A latex shield that can be used to cover the vulva or anus during oral sex to avoid skin-to-skin contact and exchange of body fluids.

Dildo - A sex toy, often shaped like a penis, used to penetrate the vagina or anus. Usage note: A dildo generally refers to a toy with no moving parts and can be used with a harness (see Strap on)

Dogger - A person who watches (and may be invited to participate with) couples having sex in outdoor locations.

Dogging - Watching couples having sex or individuals masturbating in secluded outdoor places such as a car parks or laybys, usually as a chance encounter but increasingly by pre arranging meets. This is most frequently with consent but the origins of dogging are more likely to have been covert i.e. couples were unaware that they were being watched.

Dom/Domme - The dominant person in a BDSM relationship or scene

Double Penetration (DP) - Most commonly, a woman being penetrated vaginally and anally simultaneously.

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Edgeplay - Potentially dangerous sexual practices, often involving pain.

Erotic spanking - The practice of sensually slapping or hitting a partners buttocks or thighs for sexual pleasure, usually otk (over the knee).

Exhibitionism - Sexual arousal achieved by undressing, exposing ones body, performing sex acts or masturbating in front of others

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F

Facial - ejaculating onto another persons face

Felching -Licking or sucking cum out of your partners anus (Dlep)

Fellatio - Performing oral sex on a man (jim_de_mooner)

Female Ejaculation - The release of liquid during orgasm . Also see Gushing.

Femdom - A woman taking the dominant role in BDSM play

Feminisation - Dressing a man up in women's clothing, make-up, etc. to take on a female appearance. Sometimes used in BDSM play as a form of humiliation (forced feminisation).

Fetish - A strong sexual interest in or obsession over some object, body part, or activity. Examples include foot fetish and latex fetish.

Fingering/Finger Fucking - The stimulation of the vagina, externally and/or internally with fingers

Fisting - slang term for a sexual practice in which an individual inserts his or her entire hand into their partner's vagina or anus

Flash - To expose oneself, especially in a short, sudden manner. Usually used to refer to men showing their cock and women showing their breasts.

Fluffer - A woman or man who performs oral sex on an actor to arouse him in preparation for filming or a "cum shot"

Foot Job - Rubbing feet on a cock, usually until ejaculation

Foreplay - Sexual activity/play leading up to intercourse

Frottage - Rubbing against someone else for sexual pleasure without engaging in penetration (consensual)

Frotteurism - A fetish that involves rubbing up against an unsuspecting or unwilling person (non consensual)

Full swap - Having penetrative sex with someone other than your partner as a part of swinging couple.

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Gang Bang - Most commonly, when many men have sex with a single woman one after another or even at the same time

Glory Hole - A hole in a wall, most commonly in booths at gay clubs, adult video/book stores and public toilets. Large enough to comfortable accommodate a penis which is inserted and the person on the other side performs fellatio and other sexual acts on it.

Golden Shower - One person urinates on another for sexual pleasure (Harry Jones)

Gorean - A BDSM practice following much stricter Master/slave ownership ideas.

G spot/Grafenberg Spot - an area in the upper wall of the vagina, especially pleasurable for some women when stimulated

Gushing - Female ejaculation, also known as Squirting

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Hand job - Manual stimulation of someone's penis often resulting in his ejaculation; masturbating someone.

Head (give head) - oral sex

Hentai - Japanese animation (anime) depicting graphic sexual scenes (Dlep)

Heterosexual - A person who has sex with members of the opposite sex

Homosexual - A person who has sex with members of the same sex

Humiliatrix - A dominant female who humiliates submissives

Hung - Often used in private ads to describe having a large penis, also seen as Well Hung or WE/VWE

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Infantilism - A fetish practice where an adult role-plays being an infant, wearing baby clothing and sometimes being disciplined by a mother figure.

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J

Jack off/Jerk off - To MASTURBATE, especially used to refer to men (swing_fun_cpl)

Juice The vaginal lubrication that a woman naturally produces when sexually aroused (swing_fun_cpl)

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K

Kinky - Sexual activity that is seen by some as non traditional or exotic

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Lesbian - A woman who only has sex with other women

Lubricant/Lube - A slippery substance used to make sex more comfortable and pleasurable

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Masturbation - Giving oneself pleasure by rubbing, stroking, fingering and playing with onessexual organs (jim_de_mooner)

Menage a Trois - Most commonly known as a threesome

MILF - Mother I'd Like To Fuck

Mistress - A dominant woman in a BDSM or D/s relationship

Money shot - The scene in a porn film when the man ejaculates, often onto another persons body or face; a cum shot.

Multiorgasmic - Prone to having multiple orgasms

Multiple orgasm - Having more than one orgasm in a single sex session, especially in rapid succession. Usually experienced by women

Munch - A low-pressure social gathering for people involved in or interested in Swinging, usually at a bar or a private room. The primary purpose is socialising, and often help those who are curious about the lifestyle meet others who may be able to help them become more comfortable and better informed. Munches can also be a place to get advice about or pass on anecdotes about Swinging experiences (nicola&alan)

Mutual - masturbation Masturbating in close proximity to someone else or using the hand to fondle another person's genitals

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Nocturnal Emission - When a man has an erotic dream and ejaculates in his sleep. AKA wet dream (swing_fun_cpl)

Nooner - A sexual encounter during the lunchtime hour. Lunchtime quickie (swing_fun_cpl) Nymphomania - Also known as Hypersexuality (swing_fun_cpl)

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