While these photo ads have been set up to make it as simple as possible for you to meet other UK swingers, you might find the following advice, hints and tips useful in getting the most replies to your advert.
Let's start with the very worst way to post an advert. A one line "I want sex tonight!" Ad is not very useful, either to you, or to the person reading it. In fact, posts like this tend to tell the person reading the Ad, that the poster isn't really likely to be serious about meeting up.
What you, as the poster of an Advert should be aiming for is to put in enough info' that a person reading the Ads' will send you a message. Sounds very simple, and it is.
Let's start at the beginning then. You've clicked on the "post an Ad" link and you're looking at a blank title box. Use the title to draw in the person you want to read your Ad. If your title simply says "man wants sex" then it gives the reader very little info. In fact you're telling them something they already know - because frankly - any Ad on this site is about someone wanting sex. Use the title to be descriptive, even if you don't know what it is you want yourself. If you are new, say so. If you're in Yorkshire, say where. If you're into spanking and like larger ladies either singular or as a couple, then say it. Using the examples just mentioned, instead of the "man wants sex" Ad title, you could write something like this."New here,West Yorkshire male into spanking and looking for couples BBW's". See, how much more likely that is to get someone who would like to meet you, to click on your Ad? This also works for couples too. A post from a couple saying "Couple seeks single" is not very informative to the reader. Are you looking for a single female/male/bi-male/bi-female/transvestite? Who knows! Let's re-write the title again so your Ad gets clicked on. "New couple looking for single bi-male transvestite". Again, see how much more likely you are to get the attention of the person who fits the bill for you?
So, you've sorted your Advert title out, then you're faced with the text box to write your advert. Firstly, don't panic. It's not that difficult. You can type, edit, re-word and even delete what you want, before you press submit. In fact, you can do all of that after you've pressed submit. It's not set in stone, you have control here. Think of what you're looking for, then type it. That's too much of a variable to mention here, what you're into is down to you. But the following advice might help.
Read it back to yourself. Would you reply to your Ad? Does it say enough about you? Maybe you want to mention how attractive, or not, you are. Or if you're tall, skinny, fat, short, bald, black, white, into BDSM or anything that will help you get people who've clicked on your descriptive title to now reply to you.
It can be difficult to talk about yourself, but at least let the reader get an idea about you, they don't need to know your shoe size and your cat's middle name, just a rough idea of whether or not you're their type of person. Look at it like this. If you're posting an Ad for, let's say, "couple looking for couple", and someone who reads your advert also reads a different advert from another couple who are descriptive about themselves, even slightly, when you've said nothing about yourself, then it's more likely the other couple will get a response. Because they've given the person reading their Ad more info to base a decision on.
Your photo(s) You can make these private if you wish. Just tick the private box. Public pictures get more responses, simple as that. You can make some pics public and some private. To help people find your advert, you can use the text box on the picture to describe that picture. If your picture is labelled "me" you'll not get many finding your picture by search. If you label your pic as "my wife being gangbanged by single males we met on here" then your Ad will be found for any of the words in the text.
Your Ad, once posted, will be on the site for 120 days. When you edit your advert, it resets the 120 day expiry time. We hope you find what you're looking for and that the Ads work for you. If you have anything to ask that isn't covered here, or you think should be, please contact site Admin.
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